Writing + Doodles
Through the Lens of Your Nervous System
While we all want to believe that we view our professional world objectively, the reality can be quite different.
Is Your Regret a Form of Perfectionism?
I am starting to see regret as a form of perfectionism. Regret assumes that a perfect decision was waiting to be made, and that we failed to make it.
Name Your Monsters to Tame Them
"A monster hiding in the dark will never be as scary once youâve turned on the light."
Control the Controllables
As you know, I like learning about and sharing different productivity and wellbeing strategies, but I never assume theyâll work for everyone.
Are You Suffering Twice?
In Stoicism, "suffering twice" refers to the suffering we cause ourselves by worrying about things that might never happen.
The Imposter Syndrome Paradox
âImposter syndrome is a paradox: others believe in you, you donât believe in yourself, yet you believe yourself instead of them.â â Adam Grant.
Radical Acceptance
Radical Acceptance, in its simplest form, can be expressed as follows: Pain + Resistance = Suffering.
You Donât Have to Finish Everything
Somewhere along the way, many of us picked up the idea that we should finish what we start. It's what adults do. ButâĻ
Thereâs No Such Thing As Time Management
Thereâs no such thing as time management.
Which is awkward, because I write about time management a lot.
The Importance of Positive Self-Talk
Positive self-talk... I know it sounds a bit woo-woo, but it matters.
Every Situation Has Two Handles
Every situation presents us with two handles. One leads to frustration and negativity, while the other offers understanding and growth. The choice of which handle to grasp is ours.
Do You Have a Kairos Ritual?
According to Merriam-Webster, kairos means âa time when conditions are right for accomplishing a crucial actionâ.
Sometimes, âGood Enoughâ Really is Good Enough
Have you ever noticed how we often confuse perfectionism with having high standards?
What is Enough?
We are often encouraged to keep pushing for more: more output, recognition, results... For some of us, "more" has become a default state. We don't question it.
The Spotlight Effect
If I ever feel anxious, embarrassed, or worried about something I did, I try to remember the Spotlight Effect.
Think to Talk or Talk to Think?
Do you "think to talk" or "talk to think"? Most of the time, I think to talk. But sometimes, I like to discuss things to test or develop my thinking.
How to Say âNoâ
Learning to say no might be the most important investment you make in your wellbeing, ever.
What is Your Procrastination Trying to Tell You?
Iâve been thinking a lot about procrastination lately (insert procrastination joke here!).
Approach Failure Like a Scientist
Many of us treat personal change as a pass/fail test. Anne-Laure Le Cunffâs Tiny Experiments, in my opinion, offers a far better approach: act like a scientist of your own life and learn from what happens.
Thermostat or Thermometer?
I read an interesting article recently (link in comments) about how we can be thermostats or thermometers in group settings.